Sexy Friday

11 signs of a sex addict

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How about we start the day with a taboo: sex addiction. The numbers seem to increase each year. Not entirely surprising if you look at the endless amount of options of free porn online. And the topic comes up a lot in Hollywood too. Remember Eric Benét? The man who cheated on his then-wife Halle Berry? Or Tiger Woods? We’re all so easy to judge them but there are millions of people world wide who suffer from this problem. And when I say problem, I mean a psychological illness that a lot of people have misconceptions about. Do you have a partner who cheats a lot? Or someone who is always in the mood for sex? Per definition it doesn’t mean they’re sex addicts. When it comes to sex addiction, you have an unhealthy, compulsive and growing need for sexual deeds, although the deed itself isn’t satisfying.

When it comes to sex addiction, you have an unhealthy, compulsive and growing need for sexual deeds..

 

Are you questioning whether your partner, person you’re hooking up with, or who ever is addicted to sex? Or perhaps even yourself? We’re about to find out.

 

1. There are signs of a vicious circle. Continuously wanting to push boundaries when it comes to sex and compulsively wanting to masterbate isn’t uncommon.

 

2. There are signs of an ingrained pattern.

 

3. There are signs of automatism. Like wanting to watch porn every night before going to bed.

 

4. Sex addiction often goes hand in hand with other problems. Arguments at work, relationships that derail: the person in question seems to be stuck in social isolation.

 

5. People with a sex addiction have the urge to release stress from their bodies. The ‘deed’ alone (funny enough) doesn’t seem satisfying enough.

 

6. Sex addiction ‘helps’ avoid real intimacy.

 

7. Sexual behavior for a sex addict works as self medication: it helps ignore negative feel ins. Sex is used as a tool to forget about insecurities and loneliness.

 

8. There are mood swings: the sex addicts temper can change throughout the day.

 

Sex addiction ‘helps’ avoid real intimacy.

9. If you look at the life history of a sex addict, you’ll always come across emotional neglect.

 

10. Under the influence of shame, a sex addicts self esteem with decrease.

 

11. The sex addict doesn’t seem to know what he or she really needs and how to obtain it. He/she wants to stop with the excessive amount of sex, but it doesn’t work. The addiction was caused by diverse problems in daily life.

 

Recognize any of the above mentioned points? Then it could be that you too are dealing with a sex addiction. And trust me, there are a shitload of sites online that will five you face-to-face coaching. There’s a solution for every problem. Good luck!

 

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