Sexy Friday

7 tips for a better orgasm

Women and orgasms: for some it’s a piece of cake, for others it only happens when they’re lucky. Or it never happens at all. That’s why tips to experience this ultimate peak are always more than welcome. So hereby: 7 ways to enjoy getting in the sack quicker, better and more intensely.

1. Never think: I have to. I have to. I HAVE TO.

Because I’m sure you’re aware: this doesn’t work at all. And when that’s the one thought that’s going through your head, you’ll always be two steps behind ever getting that orgasm.

2. Make sure your mind is relaxed

Relax. If you’re going to secretly start thinking about that deadline you have tomorrow or the dishwasher you still need to unload then something’s not right. Same thing down under.

3. Change position

Are you always the one laying down on your back? Try switching it up to doggy style a little more often or put a pillow under your hips. This will change the corner in which the penetration takes place and for some women this will make the orgasm dar more intense.

4. Delay it

Yes. It’s hard. But according to a lot of sex gurus, it’s worth it. Are you feeling those fireworks starting to bubble? Let your partner pause for a minute and then get back at it again. Fireworks guaranteed.

5. Work out your pelvic muscles

Training your pelvic muscles is something they tell you to do when you’re dealing with urine loss. Butttt it’s also something that helps when you’re trying to reach an orgasm: the stronger these muscles get, attaining that peak will be easier. An example of an exercise you can do is to tighten your pelvic muscles for two to ten seconds (like you’re holding in your pee) and then release them. Repeat this about ten times.

6. Experiment, child, experiment

Still not working for you? Maybe you keep repeating the same mistake. Experiment with penetration and hand work at the same time, fingers and mouth at the same time, the whole shebang.

7. Masturbate often

Research has shown that masturbating on a regular basis won’t only make you come more easily during masturbation, but also while you’re having sex with your partner. Time to get to work ladies. If you use this list of the best porn sites you’re bound to be on the right track.