RELATIONSHIP MILESTONES
we forget to celebrate
You’re officially dating, you’re moving in together, baby’s, marriage – all known as very important milestones in a relationship. But there are a ton of small steps that might be just as important however never get the attention they deserve. So hereby, in a random order, some milestones we forget to think about.
knowing each others wifi password
“Home is where the wifi connects automatically” is one of those very cliché but very truthful sayings. And seriously, nothing is greater than coming home and automatically being connected to your wifi. There comes a time in your relationship where you spend so much time together but your phone bill sky rockets because of your internet costs, so you finally log onto your SO’s wifi. Awww, now his network is sort of like your network. #blessed
the first time you spend the night together without having sex
At the beginning of any relationship you find yourself jumping onto one another every possible chance you get, but in due time, there will be an evening where you decide to sleep together – as in really only sleep next to each other. It doesn’t mean you two are no longer attracted to each other, it’s about just being together. It’s quite a milestone you know. Champagne!
Cause you’ve been at his place the past three days and you can no longer hold it in.”If you’ve got to go, you’ve got to go.”
the first time you poop in his PRESENCE
I don’t mean he has to be in the same room as you, but pooping in his house for the first time while he’s in the bedroom or his living room. Cause you’ve been at his place for three days and you can no longer hold it in. “If you’ve got to go, you’ve got to go,” is what a friend always says. I’ll admit I have a tough time doing it too, but there comes a point where you spend so much time together that you have to or you feel so at ease around him that you have no problem doing it at all.
the first time you do an external activity without talking to one another
People always tend to glare at couples who are out together but never talk to each other. Personally, I love the feeling of not having to talk to each other 24/7 – you check out your phone while he’s reading the paper. You’re so comfortable and at ease with each other that occasional silences don’t bother you. In fact, you embrace them. I love it.
In het begin zal er weinig ruzie zijn want “zucht oh hij is zo leuk en alles is zo leuk tralalalala”
the first fight
I never trust couples who never argue. Arguing is important and good for you. Nobody is so perfect that every aspect of your character is in line with that of someone else. So every now and then it’s okay to get in a fight, lift some weight off your shoulders, be honest. When you’ve only just started dating you’ll probably never fight cause “sigh, he’s so great and I love everything about him tralalala” but there comes a point when reality will come knocking at your door and you’ll be confronted with things you dislike and find annoying. Vice versa by the way. And that’s totally okay. And by talking (or fighting) about it with each other, it’s a sign that you want to be honest and discuss issues with one another. Hallelujah!
deleting tinder or happn
Cause who needs dating apps when you’ve found your Mr. Right. Delete, woohoo!
