Sexy friday

about last week…

When I wrote about what men find attractive about women according to science. Check it out here to refresh your memory. When I came across the article I thought; hey, that’s fun to write about for a Sexy Friday. But as I was writing it, I realized it wasn’t as much fun after all.

Due to practical reasons, I couldn’t switch the subject and so it got published anyway, however I did write a short memo at the bottom stating “who gives a F about what men do and don’t find attractive. As long as you find yourself attractive. Thank you.” And to be honest, that’s the only line in the article I actually do support.

You know what it is? I’m sick and tired of having to live up to male standards about what is and isn’t attractive. Why should I care what the average man falls for. Plus, all the points they made were a little too easy. Wide hips, shiny hair, a great smile – duh.

”Why should I care what the average male falls for.”

Topics I did cover a little too often were items of clothing men do and don’t like, but come to think of it, that too was stupid. I think it’s far more important that you are personally happy with the decisions you make and the opinion of a man shouldn’t be used as input. Besides, isn’t it incredibly old-fashioned to adapt to a males interests? Like they actually care about what you think. Come on. If that were the case then they’d no longer be walking around in flip flops or extremely tight skinny jeans. Not to mention those idiotic suspenders that hipsters seem to find incredibly hip.

Women are bombarded with too many things they should and shouldn’t be doing, and I can promise you this. I’m going to try not to fall in that trap. So just go on and be your self and do your own thing, love your life, love your job, be blessed and more of those shindigs. See, now that is what I call sexy.