Happy & Healthy
13 FLASHY TIPS FOR THAT FIRST PERIOD WITH A NEW MAN
I can honestly say that I have quite a bit of experience in making a man hotel-de-botel. Not that I currently have a long-term relationship (ha ha), but that will definitely come. It WILL come. Calm down! Anyway, I am at least a true and genuine expert in the field of the first weeks. And that's worth something, isn't it? The golden rule, as far as I'm concerned, is still that you should never go home with him after that first date. If you really want to win him over, at least. Been there done that, believe me.
So here are my beautiful golden tips especially for you... And also completely free.
1. You no longer flirt with your boobs but with your eyes, so forget that deep neckline and go for makeup that emphasizes those amazing eyes. The impact of eye contact is still underestimated; it really takes (barely) a word to get a man into bed to win him over.
2. Get out of your comfort zone and invite him over for dinner. Cook your favorite dish (without too much garlic) and let the wine flow generously. Because yes, love goes through the stomach.
3. Always be yourself and don't pretend to be someone you're not. There will come a moment when you get caught out and he finds out that you don't actually like football at all.
4. Love yourself. Men don't like insecure women. So always wear something on your first date that makes you feel good and meet in a place you like.
5. Don’t drink too much on your first date. Believe me, you won't get sexier after your fifth glass of wine. Stay classy and order a sparkling water in between.
6. Don't play silent games or wait for him to text you. Be that independent woman and let him hear something from you too. The time when he has to be the one to make the first contact is over.
“You no longer flirt with
your boobs but with your eyes”
7. Have an opinion. The biggest turn-off for a man is a woman without an opinion. ‘I don't care’ or ‘Do whatever you want’ are a no-go when you're trying to win a man over.
8. Don't talk about your desire for children and your rattling ovaries. I understand you like no one else (VERY logical) but if you want to speak to him again after your first date, this is a forbidden topic for now.
9. Are you going out to eat together? Order what you like and not a plate of salad because you think you should order something healthy. Eating a burger with your hands can also be super sexy, believe me.
10. If he is just as sporty as you are, suggest going for a run together on Saturday morning. He'll see you au naturel right away.
11. Especially give him some space if you are really getting serious about dating; clingy women are anything but girlfriend material. Believe me; all men are allergic to this. .
12. Be happy with how you wake up and don't rush to the bathroom to slap some foundation on your nose. No man gets excited from a pillow full of brown streaks.
13. Oh yes, you might as well leave corrective underwear in your drawer. Embrace your curves and go for that super sexy lace. Point five, remember?
