5x This is what the man wants in bed but he doesn't dare to say
Men are often seen as more sexually driven than we women. Although that 1950s view is long outdated, there is still a tiny kernel of truth in it. But as you know, communication is not always the strong suit of the opposite sex, which is why LotteLust has compiled these five sex moves that he secretly desires.
1. Open mind
In every couple, the routine sometimes or often sets in. Variety is the spice of life, they say. Logical, because doing the same thing over and over again quickly becomes boring. A man therefore likes to propose some new ideas. Even if you think right away: not in a million years, try to be open to new things. Because if you reject him immediately, the chance is small that he will open up again. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, right?
2. Less vanilla, more porn
Nothing wrong with sweet sex, but you have to remember that most men occasionally need a beastly romp. Swap candles for a massage candle, the tickler for a set of leather handcuffs, and missionary for doggy style. These are moves from porn that you should definitely try.
3. Dirty talk
Starting with ‘dirty talk’ in bed can be very awkward. The chance is high that he wants to try it, but you never know how the other will react. Since men also love initiative from your side, it's up to you to take the first step. Start easily by sending naughty words via WhatsApp. What do you send? Check the most successful dirty talk messages.
4. Spontaneous blowjobs
They say that love goes through the stomach, but if you can make a guy happy with something, it's with anunexpected oral session. If he asks for it, it's no longer spontaneous, so the initiative lies with you. Because you find him so irresistible, he had a bad day, can't sleep, or just because. On the couch, in the shower, in a fitting room... Bet that blissful grin won't leave his face for the rest of the day?
5. A fantasy
Every man has a secret sexual fantasy that he would love to realize. It can be anything: a role play, a threesome, a fetish, anal, outdoor sex, just to name a few. The best way to pry the secret fantasy out of a man's mind is to start talking about your own desires. And remember point 1...
