First aid for watching porn together
“Aw, sweetheart. Let's watch a porn movie together tonight.”
“Ew, no.”
“Why not?”
“I just don't like it.”
“You don't know that, because you've never tried it.”
“Well, yeah uh… Just no!”
The cliché around porn is that only men enjoy it and that women find it disgusting. The truth is very different. Multiple studies prove that women also enjoy a sex film from time to time. And not even always the sappy The Notebook-like scenarios with classical music, fluttering white curtains, and seamless white underwear.
But what do you do as a porn virgin when your boyfriend keeps nagging insisting to watch an exciting movie together? LotteLust gives advice.
Don’t love it till you try it
The man in the above fictional dialogue is right. You can't be 100% sure that you don't like porn if you haven't really tried it once. And no, pop-ups with porn ads don't count. Maybe you didn't know this yet: every porn site nowadays has a separate category for female-friendly porn, also known as ‘porna’. Try it out yourself once completely solo and without distractions. With scented candles on, The Weeknd playing, your best vibrating friend, and a tasteful porna film.
Be open-minded
Don't have your judgment ready immediately. Although it can be funny and nerve-wracking, try to go in completely without expectations and relaxed. Also see the benefits of watching porn together: you suddenly discover new desires from each other that you normally wouldn't express so quickly. Hooray!
Choose the porna yourself
Your boyfriend may have more ‘viewing hours’ logged, but if you're just diving into the world of eroticism, it's wise to let you make the choice. At LotteLust, we select the crème de la crème of the porn.
Make it romantic
In the world of eroticism, things don't always get rough. There is plenty of material with ultra-romantic films where the genitals aren't flying around, but with a real story and dialogue. Create the same atmosphere as you would during a sultry movie night: candles, dimmed lights, a blanket, etc.
Talk about it
Really really don't want to? That's your right, of course. But then you do want to talk about it. Ugh, talking. Yeah, we know. Talking about sex with your girlfriends is fun, but with your boyfriend it can be tricky. Try to find out why he wants to watch an exciting movie with you so badly. Maybe he thinks your sex life is a bit dull. Then it's actually just sweet that he wants to try something new in bed. Right, right?!
