the 7 sex laws

By LotteLust

Silence is golden and strange sounds are part of it. Sexytime is the best time, but at the same time it can also be quite frustrating. Whether you're a fan of clumsy sex or a wilder party, there are a few truths that everyone should know. LotteLust tells you all about them!

1. Confidence is sexier than a tight body

You can have a tight body like Wonder Woman, but if you radiate that you find yourself anything but wonderful, then that good body is worth nothing. Confidence is key in bed!

2. Sex is magical, but also a bit yucky

It's just that it feels so amazing... When you think about it, having sex is quite strange. Sometimes downright disgusting. Think of: sweat, saliva, and other – ahem – substances.

3. Laugh at your bed blunders

You shouldn't take sex too seriously. A blunder at your most vulnerable moment can happen quickly. Who doesn't know them: a knee to the head, letting out a fart or one of these über-embarrassing mistakes... Shit happens. Laugh about it and just continue with what you were doing.

4. Don't share everything with your girlfriends

Does your new love have a little problem down there? Then you might be eager to share your bedroom struggles in the group chat with your best friends for good advice. Out of respect for the other, you should – especially in a long relationship – know when it's better to keep your mouth shut. Remember that you wouldn't want your beloved to reveal all your embarrassing intimate details either.

Pssst... Read here by the way why a small penis doesn't have to be a problem in bed.

5. Dare to ask

Not satisfied with your sex life? Do something about it! Talking about sex with your bed buddy is initially super scary, but as long as you stay honest without whining, only good things can come from it.

Do you want to get better in bed (who doesn't)? Check out these 6 tips.

6. Give and take

You scratch my back, I scratch yours is not the right mindset, but no one wants to go to bed with an egoist. So to get something, you'll have to give something.

7. The first is not the best

With some, it clicks right away between the sheets, with others... not so much. But don't worry; with some, you first need to learn each other's hotspots and go-to moves. And then it can only get much, much better.