A SUCCESSFUL QUICKIE

HERE'S HOW

By Lotte Lust

Longer isn't always better. Sometimes you just don't have oceans of time to roll around for hours. Do you have a busy life (who doesn't, really?) and does your sex drive sometimes come up short? In a quarter of an hour, you can also fully satisfy your needs. LotteLust shares the tricks for good and quick sex.

Warming-up

To be honest: a quickie is more designed for a man. He can easily get his needs met in a quarter of an hour. For a woman, it often doesn't end with a happy ending... Did you know that a woman needs about 20 minutes of foreplay to get sufficiently aroused? Still, a quickie has its advantages for a woman (read them here). You need to make sure that the blood starts flowing well before your quickie begins. For example, send flirty messages to each other during the day and fantasize about what you’re going to do that evening. Or cuddle and caress each other extra during dinner or while lounging on the couch. By the time you dive between the sheets together, you'll be ready to go!

Good sliding

Since you, as a woman, might be a bit less warmed up, you need to give your body a little help. Exactly! A bit of lube and you can have pain-free sex right away. Tip: use silicone-based lubricant, as it dries less quickly and is less sticky.

Position, position

Some positions are better than others. With a quickie, it's best to avoid the complicated Kama Sutra positions and go for a simple one. On LotteLust, we list the best positions for a quickie.

Helper

What always works, of course, is your vibrating friend. With a little vibe, it should work. Operate the toy yourself or let your partner use their imagination.

Also fun? A quickie in an exciting place, just look here. Inspiration for outdoor sex you can find here.