Dirty talk between the sheets
Without it becoming embarrassing
Ah, dirty talk between the sheets. It seems so easy in ‘adult films’, but in real life it can be quite awkward to whisper your naughtiest fantasies and desires. How do you find the balance between porn star and wallflower? LotteLust to the rescue: this is how dirty talk doesn't become cringeworthy.
Slowly stepping out of your comfort zone
Dirty talk doesn't have to be dirty with three r's. Especially when it still feels a bit unfamiliar, it's better to stay close to your comfort zone. Take one step at a time and you'll see that your confidence in bed grows.
Start with sexting
In the digital world, the threshold is much lower. You just have to type it and hit ‘send’. By starting with exciting messages, you can subtly let your bed buddy know that you are curious about dirty talk. At the same time, you can gauge what he thinks about it. Need inspiration? Here are the best sexting messages.
Say what you think...
The big question is, of course: what on earth are you going to say? If you don't know exactly which naughty words you can say to him, keep it simple. Say what you think and feel while he works you towards cloud nine. “To the left, to the right. No, not there.” Uh... wrong. You can beautifully use dirty talk as a means to give the other a push in the right direction, but the art is to disguise it nicely with the right words.
...and what you are going to do
When it's your turn to pamper him, you can also perform the necessary dirty talk. This makes him even more excited. Fireworks guaranteed! It doesn't have to be a long speech. Short and clear sentences will do the trick. Read here what the best dirty talk lines are Let out a little scream, eat another Zeeuwse bolus, shake your hips, the moment we have all been hoping for is finally here.
Your voice
Moaning is key. You can say the hottest things, but if you don't use a seductive voice, your message won't get across. Speak softly and hoarsely and moan a little through your voice. Think of Scarlett Johansson. Practice if necessary. Nothing is too crazy.
