Love & Sex

Seeing stars with solo sex

Putting on lipstick, polishing the button, giving the cat a thumb or feeding the cat. Whatever you call it, 99 percent of women do it sometimes: masturbating. Yes-ha, you are also 99 percent sure of that. Do you also have a fixed routine in what you do after ‘all these years’, because you know exactly how to make your own, well, cat purr? That's perfectly fine, of course, but it can all be even more spectacular. LotteLust explains with which tips.

Various positions

One of the advantages of sex with me, myself and I is that you don't have to worry about what someone else thinks. That means: ultra comfy lying in the starfish position. Most women do that. Try a different position, or what you might call a solo sex position, to take yourself to new heights. Check the finest masturbation positions and thank us later!

Edge play

Always dreamed of an explosive orgasm? Edge play is the way to go. Don't settle for a second-long orgasm, but go for that minute-long pleasure! Edge play, also known as edging, means that you delay your climax. When you're ‘close’, you ease off, so to speak. After a pause, you continue again. Just before your climax, you stop for a moment... You repeat this three to five times – just as much as you want or can hold out. The result? A Big O that you feel from your toes to your crown.

‘Think’ visually

Experiment with visual stimuli. That's right, we're talking about porn. Or rather: porna: porn for women. Are kinky images not your cup of tea? Then try sexy stories. Here you can let your own imagination run wild. On LotteLust.co.uk you'll find both videos and stories. Don’t love it till you try it.

Romance for one

Dim the lights, light a candle, and put on some sultry music, is that too much effort for yourself? Are you crazy! Of course not. In fact, creating an atmosphere and really taking the time for your solo sexy time is more than worth it. Not only do you get in the mood faster, but it also shows that you really pay attention to yourself.

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