The 5 tips for long-distance sex
Do towering bills, a separate savings account for plane tickets, and a thick addiction to your smartphone sound familiar? Then your lover probably lives miles away from you. One of the biggest advantages is that it’s extra exciting to see each other again after a long time. But this can also lead to routine. To keep your relationship as sexy as possible, LotteLust gives 5 tips for long-distance sex. By the way, these are also great to implement if your boyfriend is away for a weekend without you.
Sexting
Your friends probably keep reminding you that you’re glued to your phone. But constantly messaging each other can easily lead to a rut. Spice it up by adding an exciting twist. The more advanced among us can take it a step further with phone sex. Put on your ‘call now 0906’ voice and drive him crazy with desire. Your conversation gains extra intensity when you both pleasure yourselves at the same time and talk each other to a climax. It might be a bit awkward at first and take some getting used to, but you know what they say: practice makes perfect.
Challenging snapshots
Speaking of sexting… Instagram-worthy pictures of your perfect cappuccino will definitely be appreciated by your love, but you’ll make him much more enthusiastic with a hot picture of yourself. Now, we’re not encouraging you to mimic a Playboy shoot; it remains tricky to send spicy photos to someone. No matter how much you trust your love, he might suddenly have a twist in his mind when it’s over. Revenge is anything but sweet. Crop your head out of the photo or go for a challenging pose instead of a naked body. Warning: video chats can also be recorded! Read all about safe sexting here.
Naughty mail
Not all your ‘surprises’ need to be digital. Send him a naughty package. How about erotic massage oil or a massage candle? Who knows, you might have been talking about BDSM for a while. Then you can send him a beginner's kit. Let your imagination run wild in an erotic story or challenge him with a nice lingerie set. Don’t forget to include a note telling him that you can’t wait to explore these exciting tools with him. Anticipation guaranteed. Prefer direct action? There are toys on the market that can be controlled from (long) distance, such as the Lovense remote-controlled sex toy.
Change of scenery
It’s not surprising that when you finally are together again, you dive into bed as quickly as possible. Ideally, you want to lock yourselves in your love nest, but it’s actually very important to go out together. This not only strengthens your bond but also builds up the tension quite a bit. All the built-up sexual energy can of course be released when you get home.
Unexpected visit
You have your life here, he has his life there. It can be quite challenging to piece everything together, especially when it comes to schedules. It’s never a bad idea to pick a date when you’ll see each other again. This way, you share the longing for that day. But it also does your relationship good to surprise him completely with an unexpected visit. When you show up at his door in beautiful lingerie, unannounced, wearing only a long coat over it, you’ll score a lot of points.
Want more tips for your long-distance relationship? With these 9 tips, your long-distance relationship will be a success.
