The first time with a woman
This is what you need to know
It is the secret dream of many heterosexual women: an adventure with another woman. For a large group, it remains just that: a dream. If you want to see this fantasy become a reality, you probably have a hundred questions. Even though you are of the same sex, it is still incredibly exciting to share a bed with a woman. What should you do and what should you definitely avoid? LotteLust tells you what you need to know in advance.
The preparation
First things first: trim your nails. You can probably imagine why short nails are a must for lesbians. No woman is waiting for the prick of long or sharp nails in and around her pussy. Mi-ow!
Also, ensure a neat pubic hair situation. If you go for bald, make sure there are no hard stubbles or stray hairs left. This is not exactly a pleasant surprise for your lesbian lover. Is the Barbie look not for you? Then make sure to have a trimmed and short bush.
Safety comes first
Yes-yes, even two women sharing a bed need to think about safe sex. Not to prevent unwanted pregnancies (duh), but to avoid STIs. How do you do that? Use a dental dam for oral sex and a (small) condom for finger play.
Get to know the vajayjay
Before you literally do this, you should also do it figuratively. You know your own punani inside and out, but seeing another woman's vagina up close in real life is next level. It can be a bit of a shock when you suddenly find yourself ‘face to face’ with another pussy. Because no, they look very different from the designer pussies in porn. Familiarize yourself with the different appearances of the flamoes and read up on the anatomy.
Also do research: discover what good lesbian positions are and learn the art from porn real women. This way, you get an idea of which moves you can perform.
Tastes differ
Satisfying a woman in bed when you are a woman yourself should be a piece of cake... Right? Well, no. The fact that you are also the owner of a vagina makes it a bit easier. After all, you already know the ins and outs of the trade a little. However, it is a whole different story when it is not YOUR body that you are touching. You don't directly feel what you are doing, and that makes it a lot harder. So don't blindly rely on what you like in bed, but pay close attention to what she indicates.
Think about the boobs
If you usually share the bed with men, you will suddenly have your hands full during your first lesbian experience. Besides the genitals down under, you also have to deal with an extra pair of breasts. Hers! Try to literally explore what she thinks of boob play by starting with massaging and caressing her breasts and nipples. You will naturally notice from her body language what she enjoys.
Foreplay IS sex
Another big difference with heterosexual sex: foreplay is a major part of sex and is actually already the ‘main event’. Handwork and oral are already the highlights of the encounter, and you can only be happy about that. It is the reason why lesbian couples orgasm much more often than heterosexual couples (read why). Score!
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