You're not alone: these are the 5 major uncertainties of men
Do my breasts sag? Does he see my stretch marks? Are my fat rolls visible during this position? Does my vagina smell fresh? And am I doing it right? There are countless doubts that arise during our bedroom adventures. But rest assured: according to LotteLust, the male gender also struggles with insecurities during sex. And with these.
His third leg
Do you ever worry about the size of your labia, wonder if your vagina is tight enough, or think you have odors down under? No worries! Often, men are also insecure about their genitals. Especially about whether it’s big enough, not crooked, or looks normal at all. These 15 things you didn't know about the penis.
Body
Men are not only insecure about their penis but about their body in general. Unless they are real gym enthusiasts, there’s a good chance he also thinks: “Is my belly not too fat?” or “Does she not think I’m too hairy?”.
Performance
This is what we mean: “Can I make her orgasm?”, “Is she faking?”, “Am I hitting her right spots?”. Exactly, men simply want to bring a woman to a climax. They get a huge kick out of it.
Celebrated too soon?
When a man has been dry for a while, is extremely enthusiastic, or can hardly resist your seduction, it may happen that he crosses the finish line too quickly, if you know what we mean. Being afraid of coming (too) quickly is a common phenomenon among men. This is how you delay his orgasm.
Fetishes
Whether he gets wild about feet or whips: he won’t quickly discuss his fetish with you, for fear of being considered weird. Only when he truly trusts you will his insecurity slowly fade away.
Romantic soul
Men are known for being anything but romantic in the bedroom. When a man truly cares about you, he will bring out his best Romeo imitations. But are his rose petals, candles, and chocolates enough? The insecure voice will definitely make an appearance when he organizes a romantic evening.
Do you recognize one of the above insecurities in your lover? Don’t make a big deal out of it or talk openly about it. Are you insecure yourself? With these tips, you will take the lead in bed from now on.
