8x you secretly notice that he or she is NOT the one for you

Whether you're single as can be or happily ever after married: we have all been there. You meet someone, it clicks, it's fun, you're in love and whoa, it blows over again.

That's how things go. You can talk about it long and short. Because actually, almost all the men or women you meet are just not quite right, so to speak. In the end, there is only one meant to be for you and that's a good thing too. It saves you a lot of dating and sleeping over. Most people you meet in your life, especially in love, only fit in a certain phase of your life and certainly not forever and ever.

Are you not quite sure about your current flame? Check these points, because this way you can be sure if he or she is the one for you. Or just not, so.

1. You get annoyed by certain things and there's nothing you can do about it. You don't find everything attractive. Those silly underwear: meh. Those sweaty armpits: meh. That weird laugh, those drunken eyes, those flat buttocks: meh. If he or she is the one for you, you see no flaws at all. You only see attractiveness.

2. You quickly argue and you don't really know why. As if you're doing it on purpose, so that your lover is angry and leaves you alone for a while.

3. You still eye other men or women, secretly to see what other fish are swimming in that pond. And whether you can find a replacement for when it’s ‘over’ soon.

4.  Your friends don't really like him or her that much. You notice that. They don't want to double date, it stays a bit cool from their side. And that says more than you think, because they know you longer.

5. All that I-love-you and poekie-poekie before going to sleep: you don't need it that way and it can also be without. ‘Good night’, ‘sleep well’.

6. You prefer to go out for dinner with a girlfriend than stay home with your partner. Says more than you think.

7. You don't respond to all the messages your loved one sends. No time for it, not in the mood. It will come later, I'll tell you soon.

8. You're still thinking about an ex or dreaming about your single life. Oops, time to pack your bags.

No matter how difficult: some loves are better forgotten, you'll ultimately be happier for it. Because being with someone who is NOT your true love, you don't want that. Not now, never, so if you don't quite feel it... ditch him and rush into that bar.