Give a woman a mind-blowing orgasm in 5 steps

This now sounds like a straightforward plan, but god, every woman knows of course that it is not that simple. Giving someone an orgasm is an art. Fortunately, practice also makes perfect, so with a little effort and attention from the partner, you are well on your way.

First, let's say goodbye to the assumption that women don't need to have an orgasm during sex, because it's still nice. I don't know who came up with this, but it's a shame and it maintains the huge orgasm gap. How are we going to close that gap? Here's a small start.

1. Ask a woman what she likes
The biggest mistake is thinking that every body works the same and that you know how to get the job done. Every person has different erogenous zones. Some start squirming from attention to the breasts, others are more into the buttocks, and for yet another, it might be the left ear that is magical or it’s in the approach. Ask what a woman finds exciting, talk about what the erogenous zones are, and just agree that sometimes a little instruction is perfectly fine. You use your maps app as standard to find your way, right? It would be strange if you knew this with your eyes closed and without directions.

2. Penetration is NOT the holy grail
Fact: most women orgasm through clitoral stimulation, not through penetration with whatever is at hand. So, there is usually more involved than just the act itself. It doesn't hurt to discuss this either, because women often do climax through self-pleasure. As a partner, don't focus on just one thing, but try to give everything equal attention. No success? Ask if the woman can lend a hand. By the way, did you know there are 13 different orgasms? The choice is huge.

3. Divine timing
Women don't have a button that you press to make them switch to an excited state. It often takes just a bit more time than, for example, with men. Take that time. By the way, it's a misconception that it always has to take hours, because women are not averse to quickies either.

4. Be attentive
Once verbal communication is done, there are still 1001 non-verbal signals that women give to partners during sex. Pay attention to the breathing, movements, and the quite verbal word ‘yes’ during sex. All indicators that you are on the right track or not.

5. The orgasm 2.0
Finally, one orgasm is nice, but women are capable of having multiple orgasms. So if you thought it was enough after one, put in a little more effort.