This stands in the way of a delicious orgasm

You don't know you've had it until you've had one. That's basically what the female orgasm comes down to. I still think it's a shame that we don't climax more often and more, because generally men achieve orgasm more frequently when it comes to heterosexual encounters. But: something can be done about that.

1. You are in charge of your own orgasm
Not the person you're with, but you are the head of your own orgasm. Don't wait for someone to accidentally press the right buttons, but indicate what works. If you've just moved somewhere, you also prefer to turn on the light when you need to go to the bathroom at night. Just think of it that way.

2. Practice
Did you learn to ride a bike in one day? Probably not. Achieving an orgasm is an art to practice. And you only get really good at something when you do it often. So don't let climaxing depend on someone else, but also work on yourself. If you know what works, you can explain that to your partner. For example, it's often the case that either the left side of your body or the right side is more sensitive. Quite handy know-how to discover for yourself.

3. Let it gooooo
We women tend to be quite in our own heads, even during sex. Of course, it's important to be in the right mood, but it's also a requirement to let go afterwards. Otherwise, you get so tense that you completely miss your own climax. Such a shame.

4. Multiple ways to Rome
There is definitely not just one way to reach that ecstatic point; the detours are also worth exploring. Think of a new position, a different point of contact (the nipple orgasm exists!) or replace fingers with the tongue or a toy.

So, if that isn't a nice start to the week. By the way, if your partner claims that the clitoris is hard to find, don't believe it. This organ is actually an impressive ten centimeters long and even has side arms. I mean, plenty of points of contact to find.

Source: Harpersbazaar.com

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