People say: ‘You can tell someone is not a good person by these little things’

It's Sunday again and that means: I've been on Reddit again this week. And yes, I found another interesting topic. This week it was the following question that was spotted: ‘What’s a subtle sign that someone isn’t a good person?’ Well, I was curious about those answers. Especially because I often come across quite funny and surprising discoveries in these kinds of Reddit topics. You genuinely learn a lot from it; especially about others. For example, from this topic, I learned that it really seems like my ex is not exactly a good person. And of course, I have a selection of the most striking responses ready for you.

‘You leave every conversation feeling worse than when you arrived.’

‘When they immediately turn every point of criticism back on you.’

‘Look at how they treat someone who is ‘beneath’ them, to see if they treat someone they have authority over with respect or if they are more of a dictator.’

‘Someone who cannot be introspective. Their world is only theirs, not everyone’s. They can never see the bigger picture and their part in it. Their world is their small picture and everyone only has a part in it, that’s how they see it.’

‘They only show interest in you when they need something from you.’

‘When they say they are a good person, especially if they repeat it often. A truly good person has nothing to prove.’

‘They are just a bit too comfortable talking badly about others. Everyone does it sometimes, but if that’s all they talk about, they are probably not a good person.’

‘If they never take responsibility for anything.’

‘Nothing is ever their fault. They always find a way to blame something or someone else in every possible situation. They are always the victim.’

‘When someone says that all their exes are crazy.’

‘I personally believe that if someone continuously posts on social media and talks about all the good deeds they have done, they are actually not good people, but just doing it for attention.’

‘They come to you every day with a problem they have, but you can’t bring your own issues to them.’

‘The state of the bathroom when they leave it.’

‘If they always complain about other people, at some point you have to realize that they are the real problem.’