Here's how to become a pro at dirty talk

Whispering dirty words in your partner's ear can be very exciting, nice, and fun. We understand why dirty talk it's so popular... If you do it right, it's a real sex game changer. Curious how you can drive your lover completely crazy with just your mouth (ahem)?

Besides the fact that it's naturally very exciting, there are also other reasons why we sometimes get so incredibly turned on by dirty talk. Using X-rated language during sex actually increases the intimacy between you and the person you're in bed with. So it's not just a great way to come together, but also to each other.

Fantasy
If you're not sure where to start, it's a good idea to think about what turns you on. Are you more submissive or do you enjoy being dominated? What do you find hot when your partner does it? Just say it out loud. You don't have to study anything, it's much more fun if it really comes from you.

Online or real life?
You can also really let loose over the phone. And why not? For some people, it's even easier to start with exciting messages instead of face to face. Need inspiration? With these sexting tips your session will get even hotter.

Consent
As with any form of sex, it's important to be sure that your partner is okay with it. Not everyone is as much a fan of dirty talk it as we are, and that's perfectly fine. You can cautiously test the waters by saying a few words and see how he or she reacts. If it's a positive response, you can start trying more. And also remember that dirty talk doesn't necessarily have to be condescending or derogatory: you can also choose a slightly kinder approach. Try different techniques and see together what works for you, for example something dominant or more affectionate words.

Look for more dirty talk tips (and examples) on LotteLust.co.uk!

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