Research shows: these flirting methods work best

Flirting is definitely not my strongest quality, just ask my friends and loved one. The more I like someone, the ruder and less pleasant I become. As a result, I constantly give off the wrong signals, which is not always very convenient. Oh well, luckily my boyfriend eventually fell for me anyway. All's well that ends well.

I personally also don't like being approached in a very ‘flirty’ way. Compliments about my eyes and that kind of nonsense just make me uncomfortable. Not to mention winking or people who have the waiter bring a shot to your table and then stand way too touchy next to you at the bar: ter-ri-ble.

What I do find works? Humor, that completely wins me over. I sometimes wonder how other women (and men) view this. Undoubtedly, there will be people who are indeed fond of winks and seductive remarks; some are just born flirts and others are anything but. And what exactly are you aiming for with flirting? That seems to me to be an important detail as well. And would it differ by gender when it comes to which methods work or not? All pressing questions.

A Norwegian study shows that some flirting methods are more successful than others. This research was conducted among a group of heterosexual students from the US and Norway. The participants were presented with different types of flirting techniques. They then had to indicate not only their preference but also whether this applied to a short-term or a long-term relationship, because according to one of the researchers, the goal of flirting is closely related to the desired technique.

Okay, I start with the results for the best flirting technique for a short-term relationship, or a one-night stand. What works best according to the male students? Perhaps not entirely surprising: physical touch. And they don't mean a hug or a kiss on the cheek, but sexual body contact and touches.

Good, but how do women want a man to flirt with them? Do women also settle for physical touch? No, the man really has to bring more to the table than just his body. Women also want to be made to laugh (see, I told you) and enjoy having a conversation where clear interest in them is shown. This seems to me to be only logical.

Finally: which flirting methods work best for long-term relationships according to this research? The men and women unanimously agreed: humor. One of the researchers states in the report that it is not only important to be funny, but also to let your potential partner know that you find him/her funny. I completely agree with this.

Whether you are single or not, take advantage of this scientific information.