This is what that hot sex fantasy says about you

Do you pounce on that attractive colleague when no one is looking, or are you more the 50 Shades of Grey type? Whatever fantasy you have, it's normal. No one is free from a steamy fantasy from time to time; there's nothing strange about it. However, the fantasies you hold onto do say something about you.

To immediately dispel a myth: if you fantasize about (just to name something) sex in public, it doesn't mean you actually want to do it. The idea of a fantasy is often that it doesn't happen. So don't worry if you're still having hot sex with your ex or a fling with a colleague during solo sex. Sex and dating expert Kate Taylor provides clear explanations for the most common fantasies, as they say something about your (sex) life. Right, just scroll on.

Sex with your ex

To immediately debunk the most anxious thought: fantasizing about sex with your ex doesn't mean you miss him/her/them. It seems that this fantasy indicates a need for safety and satisfaction. Is there perhaps something that's bothering you?

Threesome, anyone?

Sex with more than one person says something about your extroverted character. The wilder your fantasy, the more exuberant you are yourself. It also says something about how much external validation you need from others.

You as a dominant type

Anyone who dreams of dominating a partner, and not the other way around, clearly needs to take more control in daily life. You know what you need to do.

50 shades of bondage, though

Bondage has become much more accepted since Anastasia allowed herself to be tied up by Christian Grey. But what does that mean? It's simple: you're a bit restless and always looking for the next adventure.

At the workplace

Do you dream of secretly having sex at work? It's more than normal. First of all, it's logical to think about someone you spend 40+ hours a week with, and secondly, it can indicate that you're overworked. So, have a chat with your manager, but of course, not about that fantasy.

Having sex with a stranger

Does the thought of sex with someone you don't know keep coming back? That has everything to do with learning to say ‘no.’ Apparently, you're always focused on what the other person wants, instead of looking at what your dreams and wishes are.

Ooooh l'amour

No bondage, public sex, or threesomes for you; your thoughts drift off to romantic encounters. Now you might think this is a good sign, but it actually means that there is probably something wrong in your private life. Be honest, is there a problem that needs attention?

In public

Do you have fantasies about wild sex in public? According to Taylor, that indicates a deep desire to not care about what others think of us. Yes, that does sound plausible.

Source: Freundin.de