My boyfriend has a porn obsession

For five months, I have been in a relationship with L, an incredibly handsome, successful, and intelligent man. ‘Bingo’ you would say, and that's true. It's been a long time since I've experienced something like this. Everything goes smoothly in our relationship: he is not jealous, he has no debts, no children (which makes things a bit easier) and even his house is nicely decorated. But there is a catch. Of course. It can't be that easy.

When we were in bed after about two months, he cautiously asked if I liked to broaden my horizons. I found that a bit exciting, because swinging is not really my idea of thrilling. The secret lay elsewhere, namely in his DVD player. I had wondered what a modern man like him needs a DVD player for, but now I understand. He can play his collection of porn on it without disappearing into all sorts of sick algorithms.

Oh, watching porn together once (by the way, these are the best porn sites for women) I found quite exciting, but it seems to have opened the door to pressing ‘play’ every time. And if I haven't been around for a few days, I see another DVD in the player. So he watches without me too.
It's not a criminal offense, and everyone has their thing, but it still gives me an unsafe feeling. If the bar is already set so high (it's not exactly easy sex in those films), I'm afraid he will expect more from me in a few months. And honestly, I don't find the prospect of watching porn every time for the rest of my life very appealing either.

Anyone have advice?
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