Discover the benefits of moaning during sex
When you think about sex or watch porn, you can't escape loud moaning. But why do people actually moan during sex? It's quite simple: we get excited!
Moaning during sex lets your partner know that you are enjoying what is happening. Think of it as a nudge in the right direction, a response full of pleasure that indicates a partner is doing all the right things. And let's be honest: often we have no control over it, as it is an involuntary reaction to all that physical exertion. People don't compare moaning sounds during sex to grunting during tennis for nothing.
Should I moan?
If it's not your thing: no problem. There are people who are quiet during sex, don't want to make noise or can't make noise and that's perfectly fine. Sound helps some people get excited and experience pleasure, but for others, it just gets in the way. Sometimes a loud moan (or even a scream) fits the mood, and sometimes you prefer to enjoy it in silence. Just do what feels good for you.
Let’s try! How do I start?
A great way to start is by trying it out yourself first. So skip the research on porn moaning and give it a chance yourself. The next time you masturbate, experiment with making sounds. Start with deep belly breaths and let your breath escape slowly with a sigh that emphasizes your breathing. See if this enhances the experience. If it feels good, consider trying it out when you are with your partner.
If you are still unsure, talk about it with your partner first. Suggest trying out sounds. It can be fun for you and fun for them. A situation where you both win.
Is there a right way to moan?
If you find yourself wondering: is this a good moan? Is it loud enough? Too loud?, then you don't have the kind of moan that will increase your excitement. This is not the time to overthink. If you are in your head or criticizing every movement, it pulls you out of the moment immediately. And believe us: that's not fun. Or orgasms. Instead, take a deep breath (or two), live in the moment, and let your body and mouth just do what they want naturally. Just enjoy!
Never fake an orgasm!
Girl, don't do it. Even if you've been guilty of it in the past, faking won't help your sex life. Moaning can be a positive reinforcement and give your partner a confidence boost, but by faking you send a mixed signal. By faking, we teach our partners exactly what doesn't work for us. You and your partner need to be on the same page sexually. That's what you should moan about.
