The Perfect Blowjob Plan: these are the best tips

Some find it super fun and others find it a tricky thing: giving blowjobs. At first, you might feel insecure about it, because how do you know for sure that you're doing it right? The most important tip is of course: do nothing that makes you uncomfortable. And just as important: pay close attention to what your lover enjoys. It's handy to notice how your actions are being received, as what someone likes varies from person to person. This is the Perfect Blowjob Plan, to quickly master the basic actions.

It is important that your partner is in the mood. With a limp penis, it becomes very difficult. If he still needs to get in the mood, start with some hand work before you get to the blowjob. Get comfortable sitting or lying down. It just depends on what you find most enjoyable or easiest. For example, you can choose to shower together and kneel down there. That way, you can be sure it's clean, and it all slides in and out of your mouth more easily. This way, you don't have to rely solely on your saliva; a dry mouth is not pleasant in this case. So, it's important that it isn't completely dry and stays that way. Usually, that happens naturally, but if not, the shower can help.

Hold his penis with one hand and start slowly. So don't just shove the whole thing in your mouth at once, but start by licking, for example. Build up the tension a bit. Move a little further in and out of your mouth, and suck a bit. Not like you're a vacuum cleaner trying to make everything disappear in your mouth, but more like you're eating a popsicle that melts a bit too quickly. If that goes well, you can start expanding your techniques, for example by involving the balls; that usually makes men come super quickly. Just be careful not to squeeze, just hold it gently in your hand. Lick the balls, all the way up to the tip, swirl your tongue around it a bit before taking it back in your mouth. Move your hand along with the movements of your mouth for that extra bit of sensation.

Then comes the moment when he is about to climax. You will probably notice when it's almost time, for example, by the change in his breathing. You might find it scary to let him come in your mouth, as it can sometimes be quite a lot of sperm that is shot into your mouth all at once. After research among my girlfriend group, I've discovered that there are different ways to handle this sperm issue. You can choose to just let it happen and swallow it. Then there's the option to not swallow it but spit it out immediately, for example subtly with your hand along your mouth. You can also make sure to have a tissue nearby. Under the shower is the easiest, as you can just let it wash away. If you really don't want to, you can also make sure to pull him out of your mouth just before he comes and let it come over your chest, for example. But if you also feel really turned on from seeing and feeling his excitement, then finishing with some sex is of course also delightful.