The 4 sacred rules of a trio
A threesome remains a favorite on the sex bucket list. It's no wonder, as it's one of the most popular bedroom fantasies. When we look at research, it turns out that one in five women is open to a ménage à trois. Enough reason for LotteLust to share the ground rules with you.
1. Who goes with whom?
Nice and sexy, huh... Making rules before and about a sexual encounter. Not really, right? But it takes away a lot of awkwardness and uncertainty if it's clearly agreed in advance what you can and cannot do with each other. Think about whether or not to kiss, oral sex, and also the question: will you still talk to each other afterwards or will it be a one-time thing?
Curious how that works in practice, three bodies in bed? Here are the best positions for a threesome.
2. Choose wisely
A threesome with two men or a man and a woman. Most women have a preference for the setup. If you're in a relationship, you should of course consider your partner's opinion in the choice. Will your +1 be a woman or a man: a stranger or someone you know? The latter can provide a nice and familiar feeling, but it can also go very wrong. Imagine that a friend and your partner or you do the threesome again later, just the two of them. It happens.
3. Safety first
In the heat of the moment, you might almost forget: an extra bed partner means even more chance of an STI. Therefore, you need to ensure you have enough condoms during your three-person adventure. If you switch actions and/or partners, then a new rubber needs to go on. Oh, that's so easy. If you do it in one of these waysit's still super sexy too.
4. Laugh!
Don't take it all too seriously. As you can imagine, the bed is quite full of limbs during a threesome. Sometimes you don't know which arm or leg belongs to whom. That can literally cause a bump here and there. You can just laugh about that. Sex is fun!
Now that you know the rules, you're almost ready for your first threesome adventure. Read 8 more tips for your first threesome that you must know.
