This is the reason your partner has less desire for sex

At the beginning of a relationship, not being able to stay away from each other, every second you are near each other you are picking at each other. Don't see each other for a while? Then the reunion is full of passion and joy. Right? Well, not always. It can sometimes seem like your partner is much less interested in sex than you are, and doesn't even make any moves to merge together. The chance is high that you take this personally. Or that you even start to doubt the relationship, because at the beginning you shouldn't be able to get enough of each other, right?

That is indeed the case. But it can sometimes happen that other things play a dominant role at certain moments. Especially with ambitious types, the chance is high that they are busy in their heads with the tasks that are on the work schedule for the upcoming time. This way of thinking means that there is actually no room left for relaxation. And it really happens to many more people than you think. Especially in extraordinarily busy periods, there is most likely an imaginary list made where only the basic needs can be found. So: eating, sleeping, scheduling time for all the tasks that need to be done. In principle, you should actually be happy that they still come to lie next to you in bed, because that is at that moment the only ‘confirmation’ you can expect from these types. The fact that there is no room in their head for sex has nothing to do with their feelings for you.

Another reason could be that someone is really feeling down. When people are happy, they are more interested in sex, and vice versa: if someone is unhappy, there is often no sex drive to be detected. In this case, it is also important that you do not take it personally. You cannot influence the (un)happiness of another. So your partner can be very happy with you, but still have depressive complaints. Whatever the case may be, don't panic immediately if there is no sex for a while. As long as you still fall asleep next to each other, you can count on the fact that your lover still feels very good with you, that is the most important basis for a healthy sex life in the long term.