Everything you need to know about lubricant
There are quite a few misconceptions about lubricant. It is often thought that it is only for women who cannot rely on their natural moisture. But nothing could be further from the truth; lubricant can be a valuable addition in the bedroom. So let's dive into everything you need to know about lubricant.
What exactly is lubricant?
Lubricant is available in tubes, pumps, jars – you name it. Additionally, it can also be oil-based, water-based, or silicone-based. It is ideal as a ‘lubricant’ during sex and can make the experience more enjoyable.
- Silicone lubricant stays slippery for a long time, even underwater, and is not harmful to the skin. However, it does not work well with silicone toys and can be a bit tricky to clean up.
- Water-based lubricant is safe to use with toys and condoms and does not leave a mess. However, it dries out quickly, requiring reapplication during sex. Added flavors often contain glycerin, which can cause infections or yeast in the vagina.
- Oil is sometimes used as a lubricant, but it has downsides. It can damage latex, making it unsafe with condoms and sex toys. It can also clog pores, which can lead to infections in the vagina.
Of course, there are also other do's and don'ts! Read here which ones those are.
Fun fact: did you know that lubricant was already used in ancient Greece? There is evidence that it was used as early as 350 BC, even in combination with leather dildos!
Why use lubricant?
Although women typically become wet during sex, not everyone can produce the right amount of moisture at all times. In such cases, sex can become painful. Lubricant offers a simple solution for this. Just keep in mind that it is not a substitute for arousal. Women need time to get aroused and become wet.
When else can you use lubricant?
Lubricant is super handy when using condoms, especially since those things dry out quickly. It makes wearing condoms much smoother and safer. Lubricant is also essential for anal sex, as the anus does not become wet on its own.
How do you use lubricant?
First, apply lubricant to your fingers and then distribute it to the desired areas: vulva, vagina, anus, penis, sex toy, condom, or other body parts.
The right amount
Start with a few drops and add more if necessary. Keep in mind that water-based lubricant can dry out quickly, so you may need to add some occasionally. Silicone-based lubricant lasts longer.
What you need to know before using lubricant
Always use lubricant when using a sex toy, but choose water-based lubricant. Ensure that the lubricant is compatible with condoms and avoid oil-based lubricant, as it can damage condoms and cause infections. Do an allergy test before using lubricant on your vagina.
Lubricant is no a contraceptive. Remember that well!
