Sexy Friday

the worst thing that can ever be said to you?

‘Babe, I want to have sex with someone else’

Remember when I wrote about this; a sentence that once popped out of an ex lovers mouth. Obviously it’s key to always be honest with one another. But sometimes there are certain things you just really need to keep to yourself because you don’t want to hurt your partner.

The worst things your partner can ever say to you? A Dutch dating website conducted some research with 1000 participants between the ages of 18 to 69 and the following results came up. Quick spoiler: I’ve already had two of these things said to me from an ex of mine. Yikes.

In the number one spot you’ll find: ‘I would like to hit the sack with someone else.’ 56 percent of the women said that this sentence is the biggest taboo in a relationship, opposed to 46 percent of the men. Time to ditch him and look for someone new don’t you think? Or put in the option of a trio. But sex with someone else without you? No way. Critical comments about sex are other things we can’t handle too well. The sentence ‘Sex with you could be even more exciting’ is in the second place position, followed by ‘You could lose a couple of kilo’s.’ Thus far, the top 3. Here are a couple of other terrorizing sentences that made the list.

– ‘I think your family is annoying.’
– ‘You look so much like your mother/father.’

– ‘I think it would be great to go on a holiday without you.’

– ‘I think your best friend is attractive.’

– ‘You should work out more.’

– ‘I don’t really like your friends.’

– ‘We don’t always have to do things together do wi?’

– ‘Your style is sometimes hard to grasp.’

– ‘You talk too much.’

– ‘Sorry, but I really hate your new haircut.’

So, and now you know which sentences will never get you on someones good side. And if you still really want to ‘complain’: be gentle. It’s all about being subtle. There’s a huge difference in saying ‘I hate your new haircut’ and: ‘I don’t know if I’m a huge fan, but it’s your hair.’ And last but not least: if you really do want to go and have sex with someone else. Do it. But do it after you’ve ended your relationship. Here are some tips on how to do it.