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¿Has atrapado a un infiel? Mejor que te adviertan. No es tanto que él no pueda evitarlo, como revela una investigación. Todo tiene que ver con los nombres de los hombres. Porque los hombres con estos nombres serían los que más probablemente engañan. Y eso está comprobado. Una investigación sobre los nombres más comunes entre las personas que engañan ha mostrado que ciertos nombres de hombres y mujeres son más comunes entre los usuarios de sitios de citas para personas casadas. Uno de estos estudios, realizado por el sitio Gleeden, muestra que los hombres con nombres como Nathan, Chris y Erik son más propensos a ser miembros de estos sitios de "engañadores". No te registras en una cuenta como esa para tomar una taza de té con alguien, ¿verdad...? En cuanto a las mujeres, nombres como Jessica, Amy, Olivia y Rebecca aparecen con frecuencia: esas son las mujeres infieles. Emily y Gabriel en un momento íntimo de Emily in Paris – una escena sobre el amor y la seducción. Claro, es difícil decir esto con un 100% de certeza, porque, ¿qué hay en un nombre...? No todas las Olivias engañan. La investigación sobre nombres y engaños sigue siendo principalmente un tema divertido sin una base científica sólida. La mayoría de los estudios se basan en encuestas de sitios de citas o aplicaciones para personas que buscan una aventura. Pero, si aún quieres saber si el nombre de tu amante es una bandera roja, además de Nathan, Chris y Erik, estos también son nombres problemáticos: Para hombres: Tom, Alexander y Mark Para mujeres: Anna, Lisa y Sarah Y no, el nombre no lo dice todo, también influyen las profesiones y el entorno en el que alguien crece. Por ejemplo, se ha demostrado que los hombres de clases sociales más bajas que viven en ciudades están relativamente más involucrados en relaciones extramatrimoniales que los hombres de clases sociales más altas que viven en pueblos. Así que... Si tu pareja se llama Chris, vive en Ámsterdam y no gana miles de euros por encima de la media, ten cuidado, dicen los investigadores... Imagen: Disney 'Tell Me Lies' / Josh Stringer
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¿Has atrapado a un infiel? Mejor que te adviertan. No es tanto que él no pueda evitarlo, como revela una investigación. Todo tiene que ver con los nombres de los hombres. Porque los hombres con estos nombres serían los que más probablemente engañan. Y eso está comprobado. Una investigación sobre los nombres más comunes entre las personas que engañan ha mostrado que ciertos nombres de hombres y mujeres son más comunes entre los usuarios de sitios de citas para personas casadas. Uno de estos estudios, realizado por el sitio Gleeden, muestra que los hombres con nombres como Nathan, Chris y Erik son más propensos a ser miembros de estos sitios de "engañadores". No te registras en una cuenta como esa para tomar una taza de té con alguien, ¿verdad...? En cuanto a las mujeres, nombres como Jessica, Amy, Olivia y Rebecca aparecen con frecuencia: esas son las mujeres infieles. Emily y Gabriel en un momento íntimo de Emily in Paris – una escena sobre el amor y la seducción. Claro, es difícil decir esto con un 100% de certeza, porque, ¿qué hay en un nombre...? No todas las Olivias engañan. La investigación sobre nombres y engaños sigue siendo principalmente un tema divertido sin una base científica sólida. La mayoría de los estudios se basan en encuestas de sitios de citas o aplicaciones para personas que buscan una aventura. Pero, si aún quieres saber si el nombre de tu amante es una bandera roja, además de Nathan, Chris y Erik, estos también son nombres problemáticos: Para hombres: Tom, Alexander y Mark Para mujeres: Anna, Lisa y Sarah Y no, el nombre no lo dice todo, también influyen las profesiones y el entorno en el que alguien crece. Por ejemplo, se ha demostrado que los hombres de clases sociales más bajas que viven en ciudades están relativamente más involucrados en relaciones extramatrimoniales que los hombres de clases sociales más altas que viven en pueblos. Así que... Si tu pareja se llama Chris, vive en Ámsterdam y no gana miles de euros por encima de la media, ten cuidado, dicen los investigadores... Imagen: Disney 'Tell Me Lies' / Josh Stringer
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Chances are, your friend group has a narcissist in it. Do you know exactly who I mean, or not? Narcissists are known for their self-centeredness, need for admiration, and lack of empathy. Yet many narcissists are excellent at hiding these traits, especially in social situations. They use clever tricks to remain unnoticed and often even become well-liked within a group. So, it's highly likely that you won’t realize you’re dealing with a narcissist, whether in your family or friend circle. Strange, but true. So, what do they do? 1. They’re Charming Narcissists can be extremely charming and charismatic, especially when they’re in a new group. They know how to make a good first impression with their confidence and attractive appearance. They can be very persuasive, which helps them quickly earn respect and admiration from others. Because of this charming façade, people often think the narcissist is friendly and approachable, while their self-centered and manipulative side remains well-hidden. This makes it hard for others to see their true nature, especially at first. 2. They’re Very Nice They know exactly what to say and do to come across as understanding and compassionate. In reality, they use this 'empathy' as a way to bond with people and achieve their own goals. Narcissists may listen attentively and respond empathetically to someone’s problems, but their interest is often shallow and short-lived. 3. They Never Argue Narcissists have a strong need to be liked and will do anything to protect their image. Therefore, they often avoid confrontations and conflicts in group situations. They’re aware that standing out by arguing or acting aggressively can damage their carefully built reputation. 4. They’re a Victim, Never the Bully They don’t bully, and they’re not mean. They’re the victim. One of the most effective tricks narcissists use to stay unnoticed is playing the victim. They can present themselves as someone who has been wronged or mistreated, making others sympathize with them and not see them as a threat. 5. They Give Compliments Narcissists know how to flatter and compliment others to win their sympathy. However, they do this subtly so it doesn’t seem too obvious. For example, they may praise someone’s intelligence or talents, but always with an underlying intention to bind that person to them and gain control over them. So, it's not sincere. You see, they say it, but they don't mean a word of it. It’s something you’ll find hard to notice. So, watch out and pay attention to subtle things like this. Don’t let someone fool you too easily. You control how your life goes, in any relationship or friendship.
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Chances are, your friend group has a narcissist in it. Do you know exactly who I mean, or not? Narcissists are known for their self-centeredness, need for admiration, and lack of empathy. Yet many narcissists are excellent at hiding these traits, especially in social situations. They use clever tricks to remain unnoticed and often even become well-liked within a group. So, it's highly likely that you won’t realize you’re dealing with a narcissist, whether in your family or friend circle. Strange, but true. So, what do they do? 1. They’re Charming Narcissists can be extremely charming and charismatic, especially when they’re in a new group. They know how to make a good first impression with their confidence and attractive appearance. They can be very persuasive, which helps them quickly earn respect and admiration from others. Because of this charming façade, people often think the narcissist is friendly and approachable, while their self-centered and manipulative side remains well-hidden. This makes it hard for others to see their true nature, especially at first. 2. They’re Very Nice They know exactly what to say and do to come across as understanding and compassionate. In reality, they use this 'empathy' as a way to bond with people and achieve their own goals. Narcissists may listen attentively and respond empathetically to someone’s problems, but their interest is often shallow and short-lived. 3. They Never Argue Narcissists have a strong need to be liked and will do anything to protect their image. Therefore, they often avoid confrontations and conflicts in group situations. They’re aware that standing out by arguing or acting aggressively can damage their carefully built reputation. 4. They’re a Victim, Never the Bully They don’t bully, and they’re not mean. They’re the victim. One of the most effective tricks narcissists use to stay unnoticed is playing the victim. They can present themselves as someone who has been wronged or mistreated, making others sympathize with them and not see them as a threat. 5. They Give Compliments Narcissists know how to flatter and compliment others to win their sympathy. However, they do this subtly so it doesn’t seem too obvious. For example, they may praise someone’s intelligence or talents, but always with an underlying intention to bind that person to them and gain control over them. So, it's not sincere. You see, they say it, but they don't mean a word of it. It’s something you’ll find hard to notice. So, watch out and pay attention to subtle things like this. Don’t let someone fool you too easily. You control how your life goes, in any relationship or friendship.
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Chances are, your friend group has a narcissist in it. Do you know exactly who I mean, or not? Narcissists are known for their self-centeredness, need for admiration, and lack of empathy. Yet many narcissists are excellent at hiding these traits, especially in social situations. They use clever tricks to remain unnoticed and often even become well-liked within a group. So, it's highly likely that you won’t realize you’re dealing with a narcissist, whether in your family or friend circle. Strange, but true. So, what do they do? 1. They’re Charming Narcissists can be extremely charming and charismatic, especially when they’re in a new group. They know how to make a good first impression with their confidence and attractive appearance. They can be very persuasive, which helps them quickly earn respect and admiration from others. Because of this charming façade, people often think the narcissist is friendly and approachable, while their self-centered and manipulative side remains well-hidden. This makes it hard for others to see their true nature, especially at first. 2. They’re Very Nice They know exactly what to say and do to come across as understanding and compassionate. In reality, they use this 'empathy' as a way to bond with people and achieve their own goals. Narcissists may listen attentively and respond empathetically to someone’s problems, but their interest is often shallow and short-lived. 3. They Never Argue Narcissists have a strong need to be liked and will do anything to protect their image. Therefore, they often avoid confrontations and conflicts in group situations. They’re aware that standing out by arguing or acting aggressively can damage their carefully built reputation. 4. They’re a Victim, Never the Bully They don’t bully, and they’re not mean. They’re the victim. One of the most effective tricks narcissists use to stay unnoticed is playing the victim. They can present themselves as someone who has been wronged or mistreated, making others sympathize with them and not see them as a threat. 5. They Give Compliments Narcissists know how to flatter and compliment others to win their sympathy. However, they do this subtly so it doesn’t seem too obvious. For example, they may praise someone’s intelligence or talents, but always with an underlying intention to bind that person to them and gain control over them. So, it's not sincere. You see, they say it, but they don't mean a word of it. It’s something you’ll find hard to notice. So, watch out and pay attention to subtle things like this. Don’t let someone fool you too easily. You control how your life goes, in any relationship or friendship.
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