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Make-up sex

Why make-up sex gives you the best orgasms ever?

Aaaargh, I could do something to him, throw things around the room, knock that stupid grin off his face. I was so incredibly angry. I looked at him with an animalistic angry gaze. And suddenly we got horny. What is wrong with us?!

You might recognize it. You just screamed at each other and now you're tearing each other's clothes off and are heavily intertwined in bed. Make-up sex is primal, wild, and tender at the same time. Why do you get the best orgasms ever from it?

1. You feel more connected to your partner than ever because you both survived that hellish argument without too much damage. High five!

2. Even if you can't stand each other at all, the tension still needs to come out of your body. The argument was like the best foreplay ever.

3. If you've been white-hot with rage, you also just feel ‘hotter’ than usual. Intensely angry people can just better convert that heat into a, um, different kind of heat.

4. If you're still angry at your partner, you can use that. Let's be honest, the ‘I-hate-you-right-now sex’ is just a lot steamier. Just think about lovingly beating him up with your pussy.
5. If your partner was actually wrong and secretly knows it, he will compensate for that in bed anyway. If your guy has completely messed up and is aware of it, he will look for all possible ways to make you happy again. The chance that he will spend a good fifteen minutes with his head between your legs is very present.

6. American research shows that couples are completely done with negative feelings after an argument. They long for a nice feeling, for each other, for an orgasm. According to the researchers, this gives you the same feeling as cocaine. But then sex is of course a lot better for you.

7. Make-up sex puts the stupid things you just scratched each other's eyes out over into perspective. Sneakily laughing during a blowjob about the argument over that stupid dishwasher is of course also hilarious.

8. You now remember this evening as the evening when you had the hottest sex ever. Argument, just? What? Allaaaaaang forgotten! A huge orgasm works like band-aids for all your wounds.

9. It's a fan-tas-tic way to end a fight, where you had no idea how to end it in the first place. If he keeps sulking and you start kissing him aggressively, he can't resist you, bet?

10. During make-up sex, you are a lot more aggressive and you don't even have to explain it. He completely understands you. You get even hornier when he pulls your hair just a little harder than usual. Do you often end up on the bottom? Well, not now. The fucking dominatrix comes out in you and the subordinate just has to deal with it. Poor him.

Written by: Kiki Düren