why you shouldn't feel threatened by an ex

The nightmare of many women is that her new love maintains a warm friendship with his ex-girlfriend. The Ex is always a bitch, always a threat, and if he still meets her, the house is invariably too small. I don't quite understand that. Or actually, I don't understand any of it.

When I go dating with a new man, I usually try to find out as quickly as possible what his ex-history is. Is he a man who rolls from one relationship into another? Is he a man who has never had a serious relationship? Whether it's one or the other, it always says so much about someone. And, why did it end? Who broke up? Did he care? Or not? I always have to hold back not to fire off some kind of cross-examination, because especially on a first date that often comes across as a bit, eh, greedy?

There is a time to come and a time to go, and the other has gone and you have come. You understand.

Look, the thing is, it's not for nothing that he's an ex. And you are not for nothing the non-ex. There is a time to come and a time to go and the other has gone and you have come. You understand. Moreover, jealousy always stems from insecurity within yourself, so if you notice that you are really struggling with the fact that he still has friendly ties with his ex, you need to take a critical look in the mirror and have a serious talk with yourself.

Personally, I always find it very charming when a man is good friends with his ex. Then you know that if your relationship ever ends, at least you won't be thrown into the corner. Moreover, it shows that he has no grudges or issues with his ex anymore, and that's exactly what you want. When both are completely okay with the relationship being over, they can see if they can start a friendship, but when one desires more than the other, it becomes complicated. So when there is absolutely no contact, I would be more worried than when there is a lot of contact.

Additionally, if you like him, and he once liked her, there is a good chance that you might like her too, and who knows, you might just gain a new friend. In short, there is only to gain here. Actually. Embrace that ex and know that if you start acting like a jealous possessive wife, you'll soon be that ex yourself.