Fashion dilemma of the week

First date! What to wear?

The first official date with him. Your first date. After a short happy dance and calling your friends, panic quickly sets in. Namely: holy moly, what to wear? Because no matter how much you love your fur loafers, your new culottes, or your favorite oversized blouse, there's a good chance he doesn't quite understand that trend. With your Gucci loafers, he's probably wondering if you're still wearing your slippers, while he's convinced that your culottes are a bit on the short side.

Anyway, men and trends; for some, it remains a thing. Of course, that doesn't mean you have to change your style for him, but to avoid these kinds of thoughts on your very first date, I have a few tips for you. And don't worry: you'll just let him gradually get used to your favorite items after a few successful dates. Are you ready to read along?
 

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Panic doesn't help; a date is fun and he is even more fun. Really not sure what to wear? Get inspired by Pinterest or Instagram. Gather looks that are perfect for your date and dive into your closet. Still nothing to wear? Call your friends, there's no better excuse for a shopping date. Bye stress!

Trui €89,95 Blake zeven Skirt €14.99 H&M Scarf €7.95 Zara

Ankle boots €675,- Chloé Shoulder bag €2,290 Gucci

Who, what, where?

Well, with whom is clear: your date. The what and where are now especially important. Choose an outfit that fits the location of your date. A little black dress doesn't seem quite appropriate for a day at the zoo, and ripped boyfriend jeans in a fancy restaurant don't either.
 

Hey sexy!

Go for a feminine, but not too sexy outfit. Accentuate your strong points and camouflage your weak ones, but never lay it on too thick. For example, choose a cool cut-out detail or a low back. But don't go for everything in one, that might be just a bit too much for a first date.

Shirt dress €64,- Topshop Leren sandalen €590,- Isabel Marant

Shoulder bag €29.95 Zara Moon hair clip €8,- Asos

Heels

Heels always do well. Research shows that high heels maintain their appeal to men. So go for a heel that suits you and that you can walk in. If your date is shorter than you or about the same height, you might want to leave your high heels at home. And during that day at the zoo too, by the way.
 

The main rule

The most important thing during a first date is getting to know each other better. So stay true to yourself, even when it comes to your outfit. Because the main rule is, as cliché as it may be: always choose something you feel good in.