A MASTER IN FELLATIO: 4 TIPS

by LotteLust

Fellatio and cunnilingus, those are of course the très chic words for oral sex. Something that most couples put a lot of energy into at the beginning of the relationship, but which later falls by the wayside due to lack of time. Quite a shame, because oral is fun as a ‘solo act’ or during foreplay. Need some inspiration? LotteLust gives tips.

This is how you become a master in fellatio:

Tip 1: Observe the art

Do you ever watch female-friendly porn, also known as: porna? You can also watch the videos with a ‘studying eye’. You learn easiest from a visual example. Take a look at how the woman indulges the man with her tongue. You don't need to search for a specific video, because almost every video has a fellatio scene. Pay attention to the techniques used and apply them in your own bedroom. Simple as that.

Tip 2: My lips are sealed

This is a variation on the ‘I say nothing’ facial expression, or keeping your lips tightly together. You can use this well during foreplay. Open your mouth, first wide, and take him in your mouth. Go down slowly, as far as you can. When you come up, pull your lips in and keep them as tight as possible. Then go back down and keep your mouth in the same position.

“Simple as that.”

Tip 3: Helping hand

Using your hand is definitely not cheating. You can use your hand during a blowjob. Whether it's for support, to stroke him, or to give your jaws some relief. In fact, it's actually nice for men. With your hand, you can increase the pace, and with your tongue, you give the tip of his penis, which is very sensitive, the necessary attention.

Tip 4: Practice, practice, practice

Becoming a master in fellatio is mainly a matter of practicing a lot and often. Most men don't mind being a guinea pig. The more blowjobs, the better. Take advantage of this. Starting slowly is always good. Gradually build up the pace. And very importantly: ask him what he likes and apply that immediately. Men are not that difficult. Really not. Only the communication is often a bit tricky. Just ask him if he likes it.

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