How to: the erotic massage

By LotteLust

If you're still looking for seduction tips, giving a delightful massage is one of the top choices. Why? It brings you closer together, it excites both of you immensely, and the tension builds up significantly. LotteLust explains how to elevate him to higher realms with an erotic massage.

1. A great product

Before you rub your hands together, you need a good oil. Not too sticky, too greasy, or smelling like a gumball machine. In general, a strong scent is not recommended; it's better to choose something neutral. What you also need to pay attention to when buying the right massage oil are the ingredients. You also involve the intimate parts during an erotic massage, and you certainly don't want to wait for an allergic reaction.

2. Warm things up

Make it romantic by lighting a few candles. Put on a chill playlist for some relaxation. When he’s comfortably lying on his stomach, warm your hands up with a bit of oil. Once they are warm, sit on his buttocks and start massaging his shoulders and neck. This is actually just like a regular massage. You go over everything: from his neck, to his shoulders, his arms and hands, and back up again. Apply some pressure on his shoulders or arms from time to time. Then it’s time for his back. You are free to use any techniques you like, as long as he enjoys it. Not sure what to do? For example, make circles with your palms and apply pressure with your thumbs (from bottom to top). Whatever you do, don’t skip any spots and make sure to do it with full attention.

3. Erotic touch

When he’s all rosy from the back massage you just gave him, let him turn over so he lies on his back. Sit on him and start massaging his shoulders and chest. The massage techniques you use are up to you, just make sure to work more gently than with his back. The chest and stomach are a bit more sensitive. Tenderness is the key word. Following the chest massage is the massage of his penis, which you can work on in various ways. Here are our three recommendations. The ‘okay’ hand gesture (read here how to approach that), where you place the tip of your index finger on your thumb, make a circle with these two fingers, and then slide them along his penis.

Be careful not to make the circle too tight; you are massaging him, so take it slow. Next in line is ‘making a fire’; place one hand on one side of his penis and the other on the other side. Keep your hands straight, and move them back and forth. Use plenty of oil to prevent friction. The third is ‘stacking’, where you hold the shaft with your left hand and the tip of his penis with your right hand. Be careful not to squeeze too hard, so he can fully enjoy it.

Finish your erotic massage with a good handjob. Read here 5 tips to pamper him.

Want to see a visual example? Also check out the porn massage videos on LotteLust.