Sex at a distance
by LotteLust
They say ‘love knows no boundaries’, but long-distance love is quite tricky. What do you think about sex at a distance... That's a whole different challenge. Fortunately, there are plenty of tools available nowadays that can help us with that. Think of: Facetime, Skype, Snapchat. Or you just do it the old-fashioned way via the phone, without a camera – just your voices hyping each other up. Very nineties.
Sexting
Does that phone call sound a bit too exciting? Then opt for sexting. You can do this all day long and it works perfectly as foreplay. It's also nice that you have control over how far you go. If it gets a bit too dirty for your taste, you don't have to immediately shut him down. You just put your own spin on it. Most men aren't too difficult when it comes to sexting. Messages where you praise his bed performance are always good. Something like: “I found it so hot when you threw me on the bed and licked the inside of my thighs with your tongue.” Or: “Do you remember that one time we were so horny and started in the hallway? I get a wet panty just thinking about it now.” Feel free to exaggerate. Mentioning areas for improvement is better saved for the real thing, because over the phone, the risk of it coming across wrong is much greater.
Could you use some sexting tips? We wrote here what men really find sexy.
Lovense toy
Although phone sex can be very satisfying to bridge the distance between you and your love, it still lacks the most important element: the feeling. Lovense has found the solution for that. They developed a toy that gives you the ability to feel each other! Ideal for couples who live far apart, to still feel that sexual connection. So how does that work?! The sex toy consists of a masturbator for him and a bunny vibrator for her. When you are both ready for action, you grab your toy and connect it via Bluetooth. Then the toys will respond to each other. So when he makes movements with his sex toy, the device sends this to your vibe. And what's also very handy is that you can save his movements to use for when you're alone. This way, your love feels a lot closer even from a distance. Sigh, technology is such a beautiful thing.
What does that look like? Check it out here (take it easy, it's SFW).
Sex at a distance can of course not compare to the real thing. Moreover, it's not too good for your body if you stay dry for too long, check the facts.
