Love & Sex

The sexual fantasies that we all have

by LotteLust

About the designer bag you've been dreaming of for months, you don't talk about it with your colleagues and friends. But your wildest (wet) dreams, that's something else. You might not expect it, but your fantasies are not that original at all... And luckily, they're not that weird either. LotteLust lists the 5 most common ones for you.

Christian Grey for a night

Thanks to Fifty Shades, handcuffs, whips, and butt plugs (yes, we said it) flew off the shelves. The BDSM fantasy was forever rid of its bad image. Many a lady would therefore love to spend a night moaning with pleasure with a man as dominant as Mr. Grey.

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Sex with a woman

Women are, of course, beautiful beings. Men can be so captivated by a beautiful lady that you wonder what it would be like to roll around with another woman. As a heterosexual woman, you can also get quite red ears from a sexy lady (read here about the science behind it). For one woman, it mainly remains curiosity and fantasizing, while the other would love to see the dream become reality.

Threesome

Ah, the threesome! Who doesn't want it? Another woman or man alongside your regular partner. Or do something crazier: you as the extra lover who crawls into bed with another couple. How delightful is the idea of being desired by two? How do you deal with your first ménage à trois? Dive into the sheets with a calm heart with these threesome tips.

Sex with a stranger

Yes, we've been waiting for that tall, dark, and handsome stranger for years. The idea of an adventure with a complete stranger and wildly attractive man appeals to every woman. Of course, we don't want to see him again after that night. That keeps the mystery alive...

The forbidden love

A little sex with your boss, your boyfriend's best friend, or even your best friend's boyfriend. My oh my! Delicious, those naughty fantasies, but also very confusing. Don't think about it too much. Everyone has them sometimes, and they are completely innocent, as long as you keep it at what it is: a fantasy.