Why agenda sex is not so crazy after all
Scheduling sex sounds infinitely dull, but it is not without reason that many sexologists advise it to couples whose sex life has hit a low point. LotteLust lists 5 reasons for you why it's okay if sex is a regular fixture on the agenda.
Long-distance relationship
When you only see each other a few times a month, you really have to seize the opportunity to make your move. If you find yourself in such a situation, you might already be engaging in scheduled sex without even realizing it. Nothing wrong with that, because who wants to wait longer when you know the next meeting might be a week or longer away?
If you have (young) children
A spontaneous romp is a thing of the past once you have kids. From six in the morning to ten at night, they keep you busy and don’t give you a moment's peace. So when that unique moment comes when you have the place to yourselves: timed sex it is! You don’t even have to get off the couch thanks to these nice positions.
No excuses
Especially in a long relationship, the routine can set in quickly. Work, social obligations, household chores, and possibly children can completely drain you. You’d rather sleep an hour earlier or an hour longer than jump on top of each other. That ‘you'll do it tomorrow’. Recognizable? When you put sex on the agenda, you can't avoid it, and the threshold eventually becomes lower to do it spontaneously. What about teasing your partner? From these 15 statements his blood will flow faster.
Just like date night
Think of it this way: you also regularly schedule a date night for some quality time, so what's so wrong with scheduling sex too? You need those regular steamy moments to keep your relationship healthy.
Scheduled sex is better than no sex
Planned intimacy isn't necessarily romantic, but it's still better than going weeks without getting any. Make your sex date something to look forward to. Choose in advance one of these foreplay ideas, create an atmosphere at home, and prepare an exciting outfit for yourself. Enjoy!
