Why having sex with the lights off increases your pleasure

“Don't be ashamed of your body: have sex with the lights on!” Every women's magazine preaches it as if it were some kind of sex law . A perfectly fine message in itself, but at LotteLust we know that having sex in the (twilight) dark definitely has its advantages…

Fantasy

You love your partner, but every now and then you dream of sharing the bed with Channing Tatum, Ryan Gosling, or whoever. Everyone does it, so it's happily completely innocent. In the dark, it’s just a bit easier to let your imagination run wild. Or do you not have your eye on a celebrity? Then do it for one of these common sexual fantasies of women.

No distractions

A pile of clothes on a chair, a messy makeup table, or whatever. Clutter that’s in sight can be quite distracting. They are constant reminders that you still have to do this and that, and so on. Tidying up before you jump between the sheets is anything but a steamy foreplay, so how do you easily solve that? Right, with a firm tap on the light switch.

Enjoy longer

As you undoubtedly know, men are quite sensitive to visual stimuli. Ideal if you want to lure him into bed. Less handy if you want to enjoy your lovemaking for as long as possible. One of the ways to delay his climax is by turning off those stimuli by dimming the light or turning it off completely.

No shame

Handy for the somewhat shy or insecure ladies. With the light off (or dimmed), you feel more at ease to let loose. Since you don't have to think about whether you look unflattering, you can really go for it. Let those women's magazines talk, by having sex with the lights off you can focus more on your feelings. And that only enhances your pleasure.