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Why jealousy is bad

for you

(and how to deal with it)

A little sting because you would really like what someone else has or gets. Do you recognize that? Garden-variety jealousy is normal, but too much jealousy eats you up and doesn't make you a sparkling person. Yes, because you feel that in degrees. Small jealousies, because your colleague has saved up for a designer bag and now has quite a Gucci life (they can really afford it sometimes, and where do I leave my euros?). Grotesque jealousies, because she has that job and now shouts all sorts of vulgarities about her into the world . Not very ladylike. I’ll just set aside the amorous jealousy for convenience, because you could write a separate book about that.. Oh, certainly I was ever jealous. And you know what's strange? Most of the time that jealousy was unfounded, because those little houses and their crosses are really e-v-e-ry-where if you look closely. By the way, I was also accused of being jealous in a dark past, while I was not at all (not even in the slightest). That was dubious. It's a strange thing, jealousy. Three-quarters of the Dutch have experienced it by the way. But luckily you find here the tips to eliminate that green monster.

Think about what you have yourself and not about what you want from the other. Yes, yes, I just shake that mantra out of the.

trumpet sleeve . Make use of it.. Do you know the favor factor? Just try to be happy for the person, it works super liberating and it also saves you a Himalaya of negative energy. That makes you a hyper-positive person.

"Those little houses and their crosses are really.

“e-v-e-ry-where"
The intense jealousy has everything to do with the fact that you might be a tad insecure about yourself. So first work on that before you scrutinize the grass in your neighbor's yard.”

Look critically at your jealousy, because what is the reason that green guy shows up? By analyzing it to the max, you can put that jealousy into perspective.

Go shopping. Or well, read a book, watch your favorite movie, or drink wine with your bestie (and it's forbidden to gossip then). Doing something nice conquers all jealousy.

Just think again about what an awesome person you actually are. There, nice, right?.

A little sting because you would really like what someone else has or gets. Do you recognize that? Garden-variety jealousy is normal, but too much jealousy...