WHY YOU MUST FLIRT WITH PEOPLE YOU TOTALLY DON'T WANT TO SLEEP WITH

Being in love is good for you. Here here's your proof. Part of that, especially when you’re still trying to woo your partner, is the flirting chapter. Here and there a compliment indicating that you find someone interesting or attractive. But there is also a downside to flirting. Some people see it as something negative when someone shows intense interest in them. They think: hey, this could still be a fun evening, and then suddenly it's: bye bye, nice meeting you. As in: zero action, you’re just lying all alone in your bed tonight. Flirting seems like a manipulative promise for sex, where the goal is left confused and humiliated. At least, if you ask some people. But I beg to differ. Flirting is good for you. Especially with people with whom you have absolutely no intention of jumping into bed., Let's call it 'The Good Flirt'. What it is. 

Okay, are you ready? The Good Flirt is simply a way of flirting where you, purely based on kindness, inspire someone to believe in their own attractiveness – in terms of personality, but also physically. But there are three things you need to try to convey when you do it: that you would go to bed with them, but that you are NOT going to do it and that the reason you are not going to do it has nothing to do with a shortcoming. Do you all understand? As in: they are certainly attractive enough to be under the sheets with, it’s just that those are not your intentions.

How you do it.

It's all about your choice of words. By the way, do you know what you should never ever say? Well, ban these shameful

opening lines first out of your repertoire. They are all horrendous and then you are more likely the laughing stock of the evening instead of that cute girl he has been flirting with. Clearly indicate that someone is nice and attractive, but then without the 'I want to rip your clothes off' part. Think more along the lines of sexy from a distance. I get it, you might not be following me anymore. It's okay, it's a bit confusing so thank god for YouTube. Do you know why it's good. 

to flirt with people you totally don't want to roll around with? Being in love is good for you. Here’s your proof. Part of that, especially when you’re still trying to woo your partner, is the flirting chapter.  

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