3 thrilling bedroom games for beginners

The sun is out, time for a spring cleaning. Sweep through your bedroom, also between the sheets, of course. Done with that vanilla stuff and in the mood for something sizzling? How do you approach it without it becoming awkward or having a high Fifty Shades content? LotteLust has gathered three sexy moves for you. Go ahead and put the ice cubes in the freezer.

Teasing with candle wax

Take one massage candle, one lighter, and one willing bed partner. Light the candle before you dive into bed, so that there is enough wax to ‘play’ with at the moment supreme. Also nice: choose one with a pleasant scent, so that your sex room smells very enticing. Let him lie on his back or stomach on the bed. Slowly drip wax from his chest to his stomach or from his upper back to his buttocks. End at his erogenous zones. Use the melted wax to give a nice massage.

Optionally, a ribbon to tie your ‘victims’ wrists and/or a blindfold to take away their sight. This increases the tension by 1000.

Bondage for beginners

Speaking of blindfolds and tying up. Nowadays, we are really not averse to a bit of bondage. Bondage might be a big word, as you don't have to immediately go for leather cuffs and masks to seek out the tension. It's even sexier if it's spontaneous and low-threshold. For example, improvise a blindfold or handcuffs with clothing items: the belt of your bathrobe, a silk scarf, a pantyhose, a tie, or the sleeves of a T-shirt. Be creative! Also check out these 15 tips for kinky sex.

Ice cubes

A delightful game to play on a warm summer evening. Make sure you have a bowl of ice cubes next to the bed (or whatever sex spot you choose). Take an ice cube between your teeth and gently glide it over his skin. When the ice cube is gone, take a sip of warm water and lick the same spots with the ice water. Due to the temperature difference, he ends up somewhere in seventh heaven. Also read about these exciting sex moves with ice cubes.