Talk about your ex on a first date, especially.

Nervously gulping down wine number one, you hope with a crying heart for the best. That the man talks a little, at least.

Dating is and remains a thing. Either you just do it without thinking too much about it or you find it the absolute hell.. If you could use some advice for your next date with that guy from Happn: definitely talk about your ex. Even if it's the first date, yes.

According to psychologists, it's a good idea to talk about your previous lovers because it makes you honest about your past. You have nothing to hide, and that leads to an open conversation. You barely need wine for that, ha. It immediately creates a bond. You know right away if he is a jealous type. Well, it doesn't have to be in your first sentence, but as the evening progresses..., What is the ultimate advantage? If you start talking about what you've experienced in your life, he will surely do the same. This way, you immediately see what kind of person he is. Is he over her? Does he miss her and say he can't delete 'their photos together' yet? Or is he clearly ready for a new love? Look, that's how you learn something. And that's handy for date number two. If that even happens.

What you should especially pay attention to is whether.

he describes his exes as 'weird types' or 'weird women'. Does he do that? The problem often lies with him. So be careful. What you want to hear is that he has had healthy, normal, and long relationships. That it's really over with Mrs. Blonde Ex and Miss Brunette Ex. And that he is therefore capable of entering a long-term love with you. That's what you want to hear. And you would tell him something like that too if you're interested. If you're not interested: gulp down wine number two and mainly talk about all the good sides of your ex. Or about your hot sex life. Then he’ll bail before eleven. ‘Go for it.

happy couple.