This is how you become irresistible in bed

Does your sweetheart not only have to deal with a winter dip, but also with a libido dip? No worries, with LotteLust's tips you'll boost his sex drive in no time.

Tease

The ultimate seductress knows that teasing is the move to drive your partner crazy with desire. When you have to wait, you get more in the mood. Teasing is actually about dancing around it, so to speak. The goal is to build up so much tension that he begs you for release. For example, run your tongue over his erogenous zones, except the biggest one, if you know what I mean. So his neck, throat, earlobe, the piece of skin under his navel, and the inside of his thighs. Just when he thinks you're going for his precious parts, you go back to his neck.

Confidence

Nothing is more attractive to a guy than a confident woman. Many of us find it scary to take the lead in the bedroom and are happy to leave this to the man. When you turn this around, forget that pimple on your butt and the dimples in your legs. If you radiate confidence, no man will look at that. Feeling sexy comes from within, not from the outside. Turn off your negative thoughts. Think sexy, be sexy.

Take the lead

Women often tend to follow and men to lead. There's nothing wrong with that, but try switching the roles. Push him against the wall for a change for a fiery kiss. Throw him on the bed and jump on top. Go all out on top instead of lying passively in the missionary position. A woman who knows what she wants and dares to execute it without doubt is irresistible to him. This way, you'll become a pro at being a cowgirl.

Hot & cold

A fantastic bed partner regularly tries out foreplay ideas. A fun tip is to experiment with hot and cold. Take an ice cube between your lips and playfully let it slide from his neck down to his thighs. Then switch to hot tea or water. Let a sip of tea warm your mouth and swallow it. Now retrace the exact route as before. Take another sip and finish with a blowjob.

Dirty talk

Whisper a few naughty phrases in his ear and the beast in him will come out. That dirty talk is so powerful has even been scientifically proven. Researchers reported that it triggers neurochemical reactions in the brain. And take it easy, you don't have to go full-on porn talk. Where to start? These ‘dirty’ phrases work really well with men.

Eye contact

Looking into each other's eyes during sex: very important. Eye contact doesn't have to mean lovey-dovey vanilla sex; it's actually very kinky. By looking at him while you do it, you both feel everything much more intensely because more endorphins are released. Try it for yourself.

Lingerie

We keep saying it: the power of sexy lingerie is heavily underestimated. Yes, it only stays on for a few seconds, but that's precisely the point... Dare to show off with a sheer bodysuit, a lace set with garters, or even an open crotch. A little bit of wrong is allowed!