This is how you delay his happy ending

Oh, it can happen to the best of us... Does your lover also peak faster than desired in bed? Maybe he is incredibly enthusiastic, intensely nervous, or it’s simply in the nature of the beast. In any case, don’t mess around with pills or ointments. With these tricks from LotteLust, you can naturally delay his orgasm!

Consider it a compliment

Rule number 1: don’t get irritated. This hurts him immensely and ruins the mood (even more). Coming too soon is mainly due to tension and stress. He completely lets go of all that tension when he is intimate with you.You. This way, you respectfully tell your boyfriend that he comes too quickly.

Talking is key

We can’t emphasize it enough: talk! If he is too stressed, it helps if he expresses his worries. Does he find it difficult to talk about his feelings? Take a bath together or give him a massage for even more relaxation. Double score!

Practice makes perfect

Try to delay his orgasm during a handjob. Every time he is about to climax, you stop for a moment. With these edging techniques, you can never go wrong! He can also ‘train’ himself in his ‘own time’. This way, your lover can better gauge when he is on the edge.

Less loaded

Speaking of solo sex: when he masturbates more often, he is ‘less loaded’ when you both get into bed. Multiple rounds is of course also an option.

Take a break

Simple but effective: stop for a moment when he feels his orgasm coming. You don’t have to flop down next to each other lifelessly. Caress each other, kiss each other, and pick up where you left off when his arousal has decreased significantly.

Helpful aids

Forget blue pills and ointments... Preferably use liters of lubricant! This reduces friction. By the way: men feel less with a rubber on, right? Hint, hint, hint! A cock ring also helps him last longer. Here’s how to use cock rings correctly!

Sexpert

When you’ve tried everything and it remains an issue, it might be a good idea to consult a sex therapist.