We are lying in bed like brother and sister

That you no longer flop into bed with your husband every night of the week to standardly have a good round of sex, that becomes normal.

Sex becomes a weekly thing. Or worse: a monthly thing. We dare not say it, but… A biannual thing? And we let that happen ourselves and what's more, we don't mind. Not a hair on our head thinks about breaking up the relationship. No way, we are absolutely happy. We don't want to leave our man at all. We just don't do it as often anymore.

Why not? Well, logically: we don't have the energy for it. Busy with work and more work, children, girlfriends, even more girlfriends, drinks, dinners, Netflix marathons and after all that still diving into a split to oooh and aaah? No, thank you. We think: we are too busy for that now. It will come back. Or we think: the desire is gone after all those years with the same penis. It will come back. Not so. At least, not if you don't go after it yourself and do your best.

According to Team Vallei, you can stay active in bed until your nineties and beyond. It's a matter of doing. Because just when you make some effort, you get more energy. Then you want to have sex more often. It works in a vicious circle: if you never do it, you never have to. If you suddenly do it six times in a week, then you definitely want to do it another four or five times the week after. You get your desire for sex back simply by doing it. By starting. Don't lie in bed like brother and sister, but be each other's lovers by diving on top of each other. Even if you schedule it in your overflowing agenda if it doesn't happen otherwise (literally).

Nike may be a sports brand, but well, sex is also a bit of sport: Just. Do. It. And thank us later.

The online summer course from Vallei-orgasme is exactly about this. You learn to love yourself and take very good care of yourself. This means that you find your desire for sex again and that you can also improve the relationship with your partner. The vallei-orgasme is therefore a very pleasant way to enjoyable sex, more desire, and more energy. Sign up now for an energetic course.