5x This is how you see if a man is good in bed

Admit it. We all know a man you think: would he be good in bed? Provided you like men, of course. Before you dive into bed together, you want to know what to expect. Find out, LotteLust.nl lists the signs of a sex god.

He is confident

He stands upright with his head held high, shoulders back, and a big grin on his face. Confident, but not arrogant. A lover who knows what he’s doing and isn’t insecure about it.

He dances

A cliché as old as Mother Earth, but so true. By the way, it doesn’t mean that a man who isn’t smooth in his hips isn’t smooth in the bedroom. He might be smooth with his fingers or tongue, if you know what we mean.

He knows where to touch you

He knows exactly where to touch you to make your knees weak: your lower back, neck, jawline. Simple, but effective. Just imagine what he’s capable of when you’re not wearing any clothes.

He works out

Men who exercise regularly have fewer issues below the belt, exceptions like anabolic steroids aside. As a cherry on top, fit guys can generally last longer in bed. Not bad, right?

He listens

Only thinking about his own pleasure is one of the biggest turn-offs. A man who genuinely wants to know how you feel, how your day was, is guaranteed to be a good lover. It means he wants to please you during sex as well. He might have a banging body and the confidence of a Greek god, but if he only thinks about himself… Red flag!

Disclaimer: you can’t expect that a first time with a new person is going to be explosive. Very important for good sex is communicating what you enjoy in bed.

Don’t dismiss that one hottie just because he doesn’t meet these characteristics. Someone can always pleasantly surprise you, right? You won’t know until you try…

Want to know if you’re a goddess in bed too? Check the signs here.