7 things that make you a good lover
What really makes someone good in bed? What tricks should you perform in the bedroom to be named a sex goddess? We will tell you the secrets. Check below if you are a good lover or how you can become one.
Tease to please
Tease before you please. By teasing, you increase desire and excitement. You build up more tension than if you just dive in together. More tension means a bigger release and thus a more intense orgasm.
Foreplay
Sex experts say that a good sexual encounter consists of twenty minutes of foreplay. So always start with cuddling, caressing, kissing, manual stimulation, or oral. A good lover knows, of course, that not every sex session has to go exactly the same. Check these 5 tips to surprise your lover.
Self-confidence
Do you know the saying ‘confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can wear’? There is no lie in that. Women who are confident in bed are not only very exciting in bed, but they are also much better. You don't hesitate, you are super sexy, and you know what you want and what you are doing. With these tips, you will become confident.
Spot on timing
Good timing is a must for good sex. You use your sense of rhythm and you know exactly when to stop or when to continue with a blowjob for an extra explosive effect. Also read our article with tips for giving the perfect blowjob.
Communication
And by that, we mean (not necessarily) dirty talk. No, you say what you like and ask what the other person likes. Your mission is to give the other person the best experience ever. And you do that by also listening well and watching their reaction to your moves.
Variety
You know what feels good and you pull out all the stops to please your lover. You know the best positions, from romantic to kinky, and the best sex spots and pampering zones. Oral sex is not only shared during foreplay, but it can also be a snack or a finale.
Afterplay
Do you go back to your side of the bed after the deed to Instagram and Facebook again? Wah-wah-waaah. You are also a good lover after sex. That's called afterplay. Cuddling, joking, giving kisses, and maybe even going for a second round.
