How to become a pro at sexting
In love, seduction is very important, not only at the beginning during dating, but also later in the relationship. You can seduce in many ways; for example, you can wear a sexy lingerie set or give your lover a striptease. But let's be honest: it's a bit old-fashioned. Because nowadays, you seduce each other through digital means. I'm talking about sexting. Since we currently do almost everything with our smartphones, it's not very strange that they have also become a means of communication for love. People get to know each other through dating apps or social media. We talk online, we flirt online, and thus we also seduce each other online. But how do you know what works and what doesn't? Follow these tips from LotteLust and become a pro at sexting.
1. Testing the waters
With online flirting it's important to build up the tension, actually the same as seducing each other face to face. You wouldn't immediately stick your tongue down someone else's throat. So start slowly and carefully, especially if you haven't known each other for long and don't know what the other person likes or dislikes hearing and seeing. For example, ask your flame in which outfit he or she prefers to see you. Or send something like: ‘I can't wait to kiss you again’ or: ‘The last time was so nice.’.
2. Tease, tease, tease
Teasing is the code word when it comes to sexting. The key is to make your partner as hungry as possible, so that he or she is eagerly waiting for you at the end of the day. You can do this through sexually charged and exciting messages, or by sending sexy photos of yourself. Make it mysterious by revealing a little more of yourself with each photo. But be careful: never, ever show your face in the photo when it comes to sexting. No matter how well you know the person you're sending the photo to, you never know what might happen to the photo afterward. And once it's sent, there's no turning back. So opt for the safe option and don't be recognizable in the picture.
3. Use your imagination
Be creative in your messages: with text, you can sketch a scenario for him. Tell him or her about something you would like to do sexually again, something that is on your sex bucket list, for example. With a photo, you can also use your imagination. Is your partner a real football fan? Then put on a pair of high sports socks, a sporty bralette with just a pair of panties and take a nice photo. Or does that person go wild for Meghan Markle in Suits? Then copy the office look. Wear a pencil skirt and a white blouse, with a peek into your cleavage, and take a few sexy selfies. You can bet that your lover won't be able to take their eyes – and hands – off you when they get home.
What is especially important in sexting: do what you feel comfortable with. Set your own boundaries and know that nothing is weird or strange. It's about expressing your sexuality, so let go of the prejudices and discover the wild side of yourself through sexting. That side deserves to be seen, and you decide who sees it.
