What your favorite sex position says about your relationship
The kamasutra may count as many as one million different sex positions, yet every couple has an ultimate favorite. Do you always end up underneath or are you the dominant one in your love play? This says something about your favorite position and your relationship.
Cowgirl
You let no one command you and do what you feel like. Your lover kicks to this. That person loves to be taken along in your whims. Not only because it’s sexy, but also because they find it so nice to be pleased by you. Even outside the bedroom, you like to take the reins. Whether you drag your lover to a karaoke bar, a fancy restaurant, or a sweet chick flick: everything for you. It may seem like your flame contributes little, but don’t be influenced by their down-to-earth attitude. Your partner cares about one thing: seeing you enjoy. Want to enjoy even more of your favorite position? With these tips, you’ll become (even) better. in girl on top.
The missionary
Do you prefer to be underneath – and not because you’re lazy – while your bodies melt together? Then you surely have an incredibly stable relationship. It’s no secret that you both are willing to do a lot for each other. From romantic gestures to hours of cuddling sessions. Not to mention your loyalty to each other! Your bond cannot be broken by anything or anyone. Others don’t stand a chance, and you only have eyes for your lover. Precisely because you are so strongly connected, you want to feel this during the act as well. Preferably, you drown in each other’s eyes and keep each other’s lips pressed together, lovebirds. Tip: try these five variations on the missionary once.
Spoon position
Ooh, you’ve actually snagged a personal bodyguard. If this is your favorite position, it reveals that your lover is incredibly protective of you. But… You don’t have to take this the wrong way: you actually feel super safe when your lover wraps their arms around you. This is where you feel at home. Whether you’re chatting away, binge-watching that one series, or cuddling for hours: your clinginess knows no bounds. Is it that time of the month? Then they sprint to the store without complaining for a chocolate bar and sanitary pads. This is a keeper.
Doggy style
You experiment freely: nothing is too crazy for you. That’s not surprising with your open-minded spirit. Pure romance is translated in your dictionary to discovering the world. Whether you go backpacking together, take a motorcycle ride, or try BDSM: you dare to do anything. There’s no cooler couple than you. When you find yourselves in the middle of an argument, you do everything to end this little squabble as quickly as possible. Make-up sex is so much better than a fight over nothing. With your adventurous characters, you simply value actions more than words. You know how to turn everything – even the dullest actions – into an exciting (sex) adventure. Tip: this submissive positionis also super hot.
69
Mais oui… Soixante-neuf. In French, it sounds almost romantic, but in real life, it’s quite different. Although 69 is not the most sultry position, it’s clear that you both are givers. No egos in your bed when you both like to pamper each other simultaneously. For you, pleasure is number one, no matter if you have to twist yourselves into crazy (and somewhat uncharming) positions for it.
