When the line between hate and love suddenly becomes very thin

It's just as well that there's no crockery nearby, because you would have thrown it straight at the head in question. Not a second of doubt. My god, how tough. Angry is not the right word. Furious isn't either. You're fucking seething. You could knock that stupid grin off.
You look at him/her with a I-could-choke-you look and suddenly you see the pupils get a bit bigger. Your heart rate increases... Yep. You see and feel it happening. You guys get desire for sex. Three minutes later you're upside down, tangled inside out in bed. Deep sigh... We humans are backward creatures.
Make-up sex. A wild and extraordinarily satisfying sex that people have after they've had an intense argument. It's always something else. How can we switch so quickly? Why do we seem to suddenly forget everything in the aftermath of the bitter fight and then throw ourselves into a primal urge? The excitement of make-up sex lies mainly in the quick transition from one situation to another. Our brains are stimulated during an argument and even when you can't stand each other at all, the tension wants to escape your body.
Research shows that after an argument you are completely done with negative feelings. You long for a nice, positive feeling. During an argument, you sometimes seem miles apart. Suddenly you feel the need for love. And well, maybe also for an orgasm. Through sex, you suddenly feel closer than ever and feel connected again. From furious, you suddenly switch to super excited. That feels quite strange - but nice - and that mega-quick switch makes the sex next level.
Conclusion: actually, arguing is the best foreplay ever. Just think about that the next time you want to throw something at his/her head.



